<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<!-- generator="wordpress.com" -->
<urlset xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance" xmlns="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9" xmlns:image="http://www.google.com/schemas/sitemap-image/1.1" xsi:schemaLocation="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9 http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9/sitemap.xsd"><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2025/05/25/its-a-trip-not-a-vacation-a-love-letter-to-exhausted-moms/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/syd-sujuaan-big3_wecv_m-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>syd-sujuaan-big3_WeCv_M-unsplash</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Syd Sujuaan on Unsplash</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2025-05-25T23:19:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2024/05/19/fck-cancer-dog-edition/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/img_1159.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>img_1159</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/img_1715.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>img_1715</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/20230604.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>20230604</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2024-05-19T12:59:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/12/20/longing-for-connection/</loc><lastmod>2023-12-20T14:18:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/12/03/feeling-overwhelmed/</loc><lastmod>2023-12-03T13:38:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/11/09/its-benign-but/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/diana-polekhina-f68htpyhu_w-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>diana-polekhina-F68HtpYHu_w-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-11-10T00:38:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/11/03/what-i-desire/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/patrick-hendry-rax4memwfao-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>patrick-hendry-rAx4MemwFAo-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-11-03T14:15:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/10/21/hi-ho-its-off-for-a-biopsy-i-go/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/nik-luyd2b7mnrg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>nik-LUYD2b7MNrg-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-10-21T13:21:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/08/26/hopeful/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/jon-tyson-1p0rlynhupi-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jon-tyson-1P0rLYNhuPI-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-08-26T11:24:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/07/05/good-enough/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/content-pixie-uxeh3tufynu-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>content-pixie-uxEH3TufYNU-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-07-06T00:07:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/06/16/crazy-crow-lady/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/qurratul-ayin-sadia-q44eyitkwnw-unsplash-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>qurratul-ayin-sadia-Q44EYItKWnw-unsplash (1)</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-06-16T13:04:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/06/14/alone-in-a-storm/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/johannes-plenio-esl1ris9j48-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>johannes-plenio-ESL1rIs9j48-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-06-14T22:37:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/06/11/riding-the-struggle-bus/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/meritt-thomas-nlhcwoftktg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>meritt-thomas-NlhCWOftKTg-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-06-11T12:43:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/06/10/playing-the-feeld/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/priscilla-du-preez-g86airjz4gs-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>priscilla-du-preez-g86airJZ4Gs-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-06-10T11:01:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/05/21/the-new-workplace/</loc><lastmod>2023-05-21T20:45:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/05/13/letting-go/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/jeremy-bishop-h9nu6latnzm-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jeremy-bishop-h9NU6laTNzM-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-05-13T13:35:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/about/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/stairs-lights-abstract-bubbles1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Placeholder Image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-05-13T12:43:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/02/25/the-fun-and-perils-of-online-dating/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/matthieu-huang-msw_vhahyrc-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>matthieu-huang-msW_vhahYRc-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-02-25T14:26:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/02/12/is-this-middle-age/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/aron-visuals-bxoxnq26b7o-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>aron-visuals-BXOXnQ26B7o-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-02-12T13:31:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2023/01/14/i-am-ready/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/artem-maltsev-k_sqsup6j6y-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>artem-maltsev-k_SQSUP6J6Y-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-01-14T20:40:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/12/18/moonbathing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/lucasvphotos-v-2szq1zdoy-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lucasvphotos-V-2sZQ1zdoY-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-12-18T12:15:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/12/17/reconnecting/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/artem-everest-uqz5gfbcwi0-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>artem-everest-Uqz5GfBCWI0-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-12-17T12:23:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/11/24/the-first-holidays-after-divorce/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/nick-fewings-ionnslbo8he-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>nick-fewings-ioNNsLBO8hE-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-11-24T12:01:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/10/20/for-the-love-of-toes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/rune-enstad-qeujczno54w-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>rune-enstad-qeuJczNo54w-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-10-20T23:54:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/10/17/a-pristine-fall-day/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/image-17.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>image-17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/image-19.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>image-19</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/image-18.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>image-18</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/image-16.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>image-16</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-10-17T17:53:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/09/18/a-new-beginning/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/mario-dobelmann-gw-aplkl3qg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>mario-dobelmann-gw-aplKL3Qg-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-09-18T10:51:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/09/18/the-midnight-hour/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/danie-franco-23s0q7ncjkm-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>danie-franco-23s0q7NCJKM-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-09-18T10:31:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/07/18/parents-you-are-on-your-own/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/stormseeker-rx12b5ux7qm-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>stormseeker-rX12B5uX7QM-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-07-18T17:46:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/07/15/the-home-stretch-of-the-divorce/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/logan-weaver-lgnwvr-lhdqawgns_i-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>logan-weaver-lgnwvr-lhdqawgns_i-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-07-15T21:27:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/06/26/a-new-approach/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/pexels-photo-1535244.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>woman doing hand heart sign</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Hassan OUAJBIR on &lt;a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-doing-hand-heart-sign-1535244/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Pexels.com&lt;/a&gt;</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/image-7.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Image (7)</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/image-6.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Image (6)</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/image-8.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Image (8)</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/image-9.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Image (9)</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-06-26T11:34:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/05/03/not-going-back/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/cullan-smith-bdttvbrhong-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cullan-smith-BdTtvBRhOng-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-05-03T11:50:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/03/12/a-day-of-baking-bliss/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/pexels-photo-1184265.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>ingredients on table</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Suzy Hazelwood on &lt;a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/ingredients-on-table-1184265/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Pexels.com&lt;/a&gt;</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2022-03-13T01:28:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2022/03/10/i-need-sexual-healing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/pexels-photo-4024732.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>unrecognizable woman standing behind glass window</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Hakeem James Hausley on &lt;a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/unrecognizable-woman-standing-behind-glass-window-4024732/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Pexels.com&lt;/a&gt;</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2022-03-11T01:00:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2021/08/23/to-be-married-or-not-to-be/</loc><lastmod>2021-08-23T20:34:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2021/07/20/adulting-no-user-manual-available/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/pexels-photo-7163361.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>woman using ipad brainstorming with her colleagues</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Anthony Shkraba on &lt;a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-using-ipad-brainstorming-with-her-colleagues-7163361/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Pexels.com&lt;/a&gt;</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2021-07-20T18:56:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/contact/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/person-smartphone-office-table.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Placeholder Image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-12-03T20:16:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/10/22/an-emotional-week/</loc><lastmod>2017-10-22T11:39:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/10/14/running-away-for-girls-night-out/</loc><lastmod>2017-10-14T20:12:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/09/30/pick-myself-up/</loc><lastmod>2017-09-30T16:25:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/08/04/strike-three/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/img_8670.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8670</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-08-04T22:05:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/07/27/perfect-timing/</loc><lastmod>2017-07-27T18:47:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/07/24/this-mornings-drama/</loc><lastmod>2017-07-24T13:07:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/07/23/meeting-new-friends/</loc><lastmod>2017-07-23T21:43:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/07/20/time-for-a-breakdown/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/6501cf80-abec-49b7-9c64-a33e8e7a6251-10917-0000079b619a02f3_.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6501cf80-abec-49b7-9c64-a33e8e7a6251-10917-0000079b619a02f3_</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-07-20T16:39:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/27/lets-talk-about-sex-after-baby/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8279.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_8279</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-05-28T07:52:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/23/figuring-out-your-passion/</loc><lastmod>2017-05-23T19:27:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/14/mothers-day/</loc><lastmod>2017-05-14T12:47:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/11/team-building/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8139-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8139-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8139.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8139</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-05-11T20:37:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/09/taking-a-risk/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8137-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8137-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8137.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8137</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-10-14T19:55:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/09/a-savage-fight/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_7885-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_7885-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_7885.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_7885</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_7937.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_7937</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_7887.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_7887</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-05-09T11:58:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/08/getting-poked-by-dr-wang/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8135-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8135-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8135.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8135</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/img_8134.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_8134</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-05-08T14:20:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2017/05/03/first-blog-post/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/pexels-photo-30732.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Placeholder Image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-05-03T14:07:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whatnoonetoldme.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2025-05-25T23:19:19+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
